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Re: RUOK?
Postby g-boaf » Sun Oct 30, 2022 7:43 am
Michael Klim going through a very rough time.
I can imagine some of what must have been going through his head going from very active to really struggling. It’s a very tough thing to take - but his situation is really bad.
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Re: RUOK?
Postby foo on patrol » Sun Oct 30, 2022 2:13 pm
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Re: RUOK?
Postby foo on patrol » Sat Nov 05, 2022 9:23 am
Had a FB friend from Canada post a vid of how to release the nerve from the pinched spot yesterday, so I'm going to try it and see if it works because all of my previous stretching and contortionist positions hasn't worked for me. Anyone else suffer from this mongrel thing?
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Re: RUOK?
Postby foo on patrol » Thu Dec 29, 2022 7:58 pm
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Re: RUOK?
Postby warthog1 » Thu Dec 29, 2022 8:06 pm
Yeah mate, thanks.foo on patrol wrote: ↑Thu Dec 29, 2022 7:58 pmI hope everyone has gotten through Christmas okay and not been dragged down by everything as can happen sometimes?
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Hope you went ok.
We had ours the weekend before as I worked it. Was reasonably busy for a Christmas with 4 cases but no dramas.
Got NewYears off though so well worth it!
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Re: RUOK?
Postby foo on patrol » Fri Dec 30, 2022 8:48 am
warthog1 wrote: ↑Thu Dec 29, 2022 8:06 pmYeah mate, thanks.foo on patrol wrote: ↑Thu Dec 29, 2022 7:58 pmI hope everyone has gotten through Christmas okay and not been dragged down by everything as can happen sometimes?
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Hope you went ok.
We had ours the weekend before as I worked it. Was reasonably busy for a Christmas with 4 cases but no dramas.
Got NewYears off though so well worth it!
Yeah a quiet one at home but my mindset is a bit toxic at the moment with trying to find rental by the 16-2-23 and trying to recover from the year of work. Fatigue levels are just off the scale but I have to keep pushing on at this point.
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Re: RUOK?
Postby warthog1 » Fri Dec 30, 2022 9:35 am
Bugger.foo on patrol wrote: ↑Fri Dec 30, 2022 8:48 am
Yeah a quiet one at home but my mindset is a bit toxic at the moment with trying to find rental by the 16-2-23 and trying to recover from the year of work. Fatigue levels are just off the scale but I have to keep pushing on at this point.
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I don't know any who live up there sorry.
Has the boss got any contacts?
He seems like a good bloke.
Other than that maybe p4x4 has a few who may know.
Hope you get it sorted.
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Re: RUOK?
Postby foo on patrol » Fri Dec 30, 2022 2:10 pm
warthog1 wrote: ↑Fri Dec 30, 2022 9:35 amBugger.foo on patrol wrote: ↑Fri Dec 30, 2022 8:48 am
Yeah a quiet one at home but my mindset is a bit toxic at the moment with trying to find rental by the 16-2-23 and trying to recover from the year of work. Fatigue levels are just off the scale but I have to keep pushing on at this point.
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I don't know any who live up there sorry.
Has the boss got any contacts?
He seems like a good bloke.
Other than that maybe p4x4 has a few who may know.
Hope you get it sorted.
Nobody can help, I have people and so does the wife looking out for places for us. If it was only two of us, we could go into an over 40's with no lock in lease, they just require a months notice if you want to leave. Sadly, both of our adult kids are not your normal run of the mill adults. One is like me with the Asperger's and ADHD but very much an extrovert and sadly as a parent (not in a........... I can't think of what to say here but you'll understand) our beautiful daughter from birth, went through hell at school and bullying and was suicidal for many years because of that and the fact that she didn't associate with being female. After many visits to Drs and Specialists, it was determined that she was mentally male, even though all the gene tests showed no sign of that. So as a result of all of that, she became Transgender and has been on hormone treatment for the past 5yrs or maybe a little more and is now referred to as a son.
Just try and wrap your head around all of that and you have a slight understanding of our position with everything. This fact was also kept from me for 18mths also, because they were afraid of my reaction to it but the fact that they thought that way, is/was very sad and disappointing for me because I am very loyal to family and close mates and I should have been given the due respect and told, instead, my wife was tearing herself to pieces mentally which in itself has damaged our marriage but that's another story, we are still together but legally separated but I haven't given up on things but trust issues are an issue with me.
So there you have it, maybe more than I should have typed but if people opened up about crap going on in their life instead of all the secret squirrel stuff, maybe mental health wouldn't be such a huge problem that it has become.
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Re: RUOK?
Postby warthog1 » Fri Dec 30, 2022 4:59 pm
It sounds like you are well on the way to working through them.
I feel very sorry/angry for the way your child was treated at school.
Some people are bastards and have no respect for the welfare of others.
Part of the reason I am not very social, just cant be bothered dealing with the people I dont like.
I hope it pans out and things improve with time and your son gets stronger and more confident.
One of the most important things is the happiness of those we love.
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Re: RUOK?
Postby foo on patrol » Fri Dec 30, 2022 6:33 pm
warthog1 wrote: ↑Fri Dec 30, 2022 4:59 pmYeah that are some very big issues to work through Foo.
It sounds like you are well on the way to working through them.
I feel very sorry/angry for the way your child was treated at school.
Some people are bastards and have no respect for the welfare of others.
Part of the reason I am not very social, just cant be bothered dealing with the people I dont like.
I hope it pans out and things improve with time and your son gets stronger and more confident.
One of the most important things is the happiness of those we love.
Thanks mate, hopefully the last few years of life I can enjoy things more and get back to the top of the Masters for some serious racing.
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Re: RUOK?
Postby foo on patrol » Thu Mar 09, 2023 1:40 pm
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Re: RUOK?
Postby foo on patrol » Mon Mar 13, 2023 7:55 pm
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Re: RUOK?
Postby g-boaf » Tue Mar 14, 2023 11:45 am
Interest rates are a concern that's for sure. Riding on Zwift a bit up and down (sickness as well), got out on real bike a couple of times for short rides but not officially clear for that yet.foo on patrol wrote: ↑Thu Mar 09, 2023 1:40 pmSo how's everyone going so far this year, especially now that interest rates are going up, causing added pressure to family finances?
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Re: RUOK?
Postby familyguy » Tue Mar 14, 2023 4:02 pm
While my partner and I got a major loan 18 months ago, we are in the rather fortunate position that the fixed part has 2.5 years left to run, while the variable portion is entirely offset by savings, meaning we have have a nett 0% interest rate rise over the last 18 months. Enjoying it while we can, but even if things roll out and rates are still here or hereabouts, we have plenty of headroom factored in. We could hit 10% and be OK for a while. Hopefully the RBA gets some clarity about inflation causality soon, but I'm not going to count on it. Apparently we're all earning too much. Funny. My last effective pay rise was over 4 years ago.foo on patrol wrote: ↑Thu Mar 09, 2023 1:40 pmSo how's everyone going so far this year, especially now that interest rates are going up, causing added pressure to family finances?
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Re: RUOK?
Postby P!N20 » Tue Mar 14, 2023 4:50 pm
foo on patrol wrote: ↑Thu Mar 09, 2023 1:40 pmSo how's everyone going so far this year, especially now that interest rates are going up, causing added pressure to family finances?
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Bought a house February 2022. Two years fixed interest will expire Feb 2024. If interest rates don't come down between now and then we'll be looking a $2k extra a month, which isn't sustainable. So yeah, I'm on a freight train hurtling towards a cliff.
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Re: RUOK?
Postby foo on patrol » Thu Mar 16, 2023 1:56 pm
P!N20 wrote: ↑Tue Mar 14, 2023 4:50 pmfoo on patrol wrote: ↑Thu Mar 09, 2023 1:40 pmSo how's everyone going so far this year, especially now that interest rates are going up, causing added pressure to family finances?
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Bought a house February 2022. Two years fixed interest will expire Feb 2024. If interest rates don't come down between now and then we'll be looking a $2k extra a month, which isn't sustainable. So yeah, I'm on a freight train hurtling towards a cliff.
Don't envy you there, we are paying an extra $400 a month on rent and that's bad enough.
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Re: RUOK?
Postby foo on patrol » Thu Mar 16, 2023 1:59 pm
g-boaf wrote: ↑Tue Mar 14, 2023 11:45 amInterest rates are a concern that's for sure. Riding on Zwift a bit up and down (sickness as well), got out on real bike a couple of times for short rides but not officially clear for that yet.foo on patrol wrote: ↑Thu Mar 09, 2023 1:40 pmSo how's everyone going so far this year, especially now that interest rates are going up, causing added pressure to family finances?
Foo
I'm hoping to be back on the bike in the next couple of weeks, seeing as the house move is finished and sorting is a little sorted. Only two rides so far this year and that's not doing me any favours.
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Re: RUOK?
Postby foo on patrol » Thu Mar 16, 2023 2:00 pm
Keep this going and your head space will be even better.
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Re: RUOK?
Postby Duck! » Thu Mar 16, 2023 10:14 pm
I fly solo, so living expenses are relatively low to start with. My mortgage is quite small compared to the average, so interest rate rises aren't biting too badly yet. So I'm alright on that front.foo on patrol wrote: ↑Thu Mar 09, 2023 1:40 pmSo how's everyone going so far this year, especially now that interest rates are going up, causing added pressure to family finances?
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Last weekend I sailed my first National Championship regatta as the skipper of a boat, which was a bit was a bit nerve wracking. I've sailed Nationals as a crew numerous times, even won a couple, but until now never driven a boat at that level. On face value, finishing 20th in a fleet of 21 boats is pretty ordinary, but the racing was tight, and although I've been sailing for many years, I'm still quite new to driving this particular class of boat (International Fireball, if you want to get your googles on). Big buzz to be racing against 20 other boats of the same type instead of the one or two in weekly club racing.
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Re: RUOK?
Postby foo on patrol » Fri Mar 17, 2023 2:23 am
Duck! wrote: ↑Thu Mar 16, 2023 10:14 pmI fly solo, so living expenses are relatively low to start with. My mortgage is quite small compared to the average, so interest rate rises aren't biting too badly yet. So I'm alright on that front.foo on patrol wrote: ↑Thu Mar 09, 2023 1:40 pmSo how's everyone going so far this year, especially now that interest rates are going up, causing added pressure to family finances?
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Last weekend I sailed my first National Championship regatta as the skipper of a boat, which was a bit was a bit nerve wracking. I've sailed Nationals as a crew numerous times, even won a couple, but until now never driven a boat at that level. On face value, finishing 20th in a fleet of 21 boats is pretty ordinary, but the racing was tight, and although I've been sailing for many years, I'm still quite new to driving this particular class of boat (International Fireball, if you want to get your googles on). Big buzz to be racing against 20 other boats of the same type instead of the one or two in weekly club racing.
Good on you, that would be very............confronting............nerve racking.............and very left of field thinking compared to racing treadlies.
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Re: RUOK?
Postby MichaelB » Fri Mar 17, 2023 9:39 am
I feel for those renting and facing that huge change in mortgage payments. Just the repayments for the short term loan that we are looking at are frightening !!
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Re: RUOK?
Postby baabaa » Fri Mar 17, 2023 10:42 am
Well done - crewing is hard enough - doubt I would ever have the edge to steer under even twilight "racing" conditionsDuck! wrote: ↑Thu Mar 16, 2023 10:14 pm
Last weekend I sailed my first National Championship regatta as the skipper of a boat, which was a bit was a bit nerve wracking. I've sailed Nationals as a crew numerous times, even won a couple, but until now never driven a boat at that level. On face value, finishing 20th in a fleet of 21 boats is pretty ordinary, but the racing was tight, and although I've been sailing for many years, I'm still quite new to driving this particular class of boat (International Fireball, if you want to get your googles on). Big buzz to be racing against 20 other boats of the same type instead of the one or two in weekly club racing.
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